I know I'm not supposed to react on these things but this has gone farther than expected. It's about my brother and your lame comments about him. Shame on you people.
I may not be the most perfect sister in the world but this is what you people must remember. If any of you ever try to hurt my siblings, you're toast. I'm not violent so I think this would be the right way.
Calling my brother "eksena" or "mahangin" is somewhat a sign of your wrong breeding. My brother may sometimes be irritating or annoyingly longing for attention, but aren't most of us during that stage of life? He has his flaws. You have yours too. And they're even more than what my brother has. And if you try to call him that, please do it in a straightforward way. He wants to hear what you're saying. He won't cry in front of you, promise. My brother may be emotionally weak, but he doesn't cry in front of people. He cries in front of us because of your stupid insults. We tell him to not be what-you're-telling-him-that-he-is. We may not be with him in school but we know that he's trying hard to change. Trying hard to be accepted.
He may be immature and childish at times but look here dude, who's more immature now? You're actually corrupting him into being like this. Before he enrolled in that school, he wasn't like this. Dude, this may seem mean of me, but I think you're the reason why he became like this. He wouldn't be loud just because he wants to annoy us. He wasnt' public student-ish. He was respectful. He called me ATE. [Guessed it right, now he doesn't.] He was so nice. Everyone loved him. And he didn't think of what other people think about him. Now, he's this annoying kid who everyone thinks of as disrespectful and unkind.
We are the family, yes, and we must make sure he grows up in a right way. We are doing it with all our might. But most of his day is spent in school. How can we control that? Sheesh. Maybe some of it is our fault but hey, we tried pulling him away from the hell of an environment that is, but this you should remember: he cried and said, "No. I'm staying sa Mother Goose."
Ok. Let's go back to the 'mahangin' and 'eksena' parts.
My brother once mentioned in one of our heart-to-heart talks that he was called 'mahangin' a couple of times. It's his fault maybe if he's a brag, but dude, maybe it's your fault din for not being open-minded. Not to brag and this is for your information: In his former school, having a PS3 and a PSP is just normal. It's not his fault if he thought that it's the same there. Dude, he is young. And adjusting was too fast to carry on his own pace. So try to understand, dude. You're lucky you did not experience what he went through. Being pulled out from an international school in another country and being placed in an environment totally different and having no other choice but to accede? Dude, what you were asking him was too much. He can adjust, but give him time.
And 'eksena'. How would you call him 'eksena'? First, dude, get your grammar and word-construction right. 'EKSENA' refers to a scene. Without any further description. For me, if I'm totally naive in this mean surrounding, I would totally say that I'm flattered. Being called a 'scene' means you're eye-catching. Notable. Sheesh. You probably don't know. Call him 'papansin'. That'd be more appropriate. But longing for attention is natural when you're the youngest in the family. Agree? He's the bunso. But he doesn't get much attention here at home. Blame me. So stop saying that he's an 'eksena' or what 'cause you dudes probably are, too. You just don't see it 'cause you're too busy fault-finding.
I won't name the actual dudes who gave my brother much emotional and mental trauma because I may hate you to bones, but I have my manners well kept.
Mother Goose people. You're just proving that the gossip's true. That you're school's full of people who act like they're studying in a public institution. Say what you want to say, but please make sure that what you're saying is true. Ya'll have opinions on him but please, if you don't have anything good to say, keep those mouths shut. 'Cause honestly, he doesn't speak foul about you. So if you dudes at least have an ounce of good breeding, please follow the golden rule. That's all I have to say.
It'll be my pleasure if you read this. I'm not mean. I'm just being a good ate. Hate me if you must but don't hate my brother because of this. Okies, darlings?
God Bless na lang. ;]
Lux in Domino!
-CJ
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